Reflections and inner guidance on the cycles and seasons of Life, Love, and Transformation
July 2026 Release
Dualities of the Heart is a collection of poetry, reflections, and inner guidance that was written in 2023 during a time of deep personal transformation that lasted many years. These writings center around themes of trauma, love, grief, self-identity, healing, and embodiment, and are filtered through a lens of feminine esoteric wisdom. They are intentionally left in the order they were written as a representation of the spiraling, cycling, seasonal nature of life, love, and transformation, which are often messy and not experienced in neat categories or structures.
Crowned Warrior
(manifesto of personal freedom)
She is the beauty of a rose, both the petals and the thorns.
Discernment is Gifted Through Experience
Self-betrayal reveals itself through my own need to be needed.
I’m “the fixer” after all, the shadow side of empathy.
Compassion transformed to a slow-stirring cauldron of manipulation and attachment to form.
My desire for things to be a certain way, crafting a smoky mirror that distorts perception.
My cup is empty. I’ve given everything away. No one took it from me.
A necessary emptiness where the only option is to see my own illusions.
I AM Feline in Human Form
I look into the world with Panther’s green-eyed gleaming stare.
If you prefer Magic, come frolic with me. Just be respectful of my sharp-clawed warning. It is not for show.
YOU are the Perfection of the Great SHE Moon
Flow with the tides, the changing of the guards, and the slow sway from darkness to light.
ALL are equal.
If you take the leap, dive deep.
Resurface as air fills newborn lungs.
Shimmer in the light of your rebirth with the knowing that you WILL dive deep again.
Fly Free, SHE-Phoenix
Ignite in knowing that you are pure potential, unimagined abundance born from faith in the All-knowing.
Sparks of the Divine lighting wildfires of sensual delight and mischief.
Who told you that you must be prim and proper?
I Love You as SHE Loves You
I love you.
I love your boldness and raw courage.
I love your unfiltered truths spoken from your crimson mouth.
I love your vulnerability to dive into the thick waters of sorrow’s darkness.
I love your brave presence in the shattering of untruths.
I Choose Conscious Creation
I choose conscious creation.
I choose to build on the strengths that have always been in me, to embrace the mistakes I have made in the past and choose differently in the present.
I choose to forgive myself for not knowing what I did not know.
I choose to stop wondering if what I have to offer is “good enough” and remind myself that I matter, that I am exactly where I am supposed to be.
The Medicine of Dream Weavers
I find comfort in this uncertainty, not always, but in stillness I do.
I feel the peace of this connection in the space where the mind settles and a felt sense takes over.
SHE is Re-birthing the Soul of Humanity
We are here to cherish the sacredness of existence, the gift of life. It is the gift of ALL, not just our individual selves. The energy of life courses through every living being, none separate from the whole. The wise ones know this and cherish this connection; ancestral bones returning to the Earth that birthed them. To remember these ancient truths is to heal our world, to heal the spiritual amnesia that has created the suffering of aloneness.
We Must Globally Shift in Favor of Creation
You are a child of the Earth, whole and beautiful. Do you doubt your ability to enact change in your world?
Balance is necessary. Balanced mind, body, and spirit.
Do you doubt your connection to ALL, to the intricate web of Creation?
You are a teacher, just as you are a student. This must be reflected in your life, your love, and your work.
The future of the world is dependent on each of us rising in our potential, our gifts, and our wisdom.
Change is Coming, and it is Good
The world is shifting, and we are required to come into harmony with the unknown tides of revolution and intentionally crafted integrity. The old ways will not do anymore. Our ambitious and individualistic striving has been at odds with natural order for far too long. Change is coming, and it is good. It is the rise of the ancient knowing of the feminine collective that cultivates collective well-being with an understanding that there is enough abundance for ALL.
This is a Heroine’s Journey
The truth of this journey is the ebb and flow of raging resistance and battle-worn surrender. This is a heroine’s journey, a call to heal, to transform, and to rise up into our power. It is a return to truth.
Move Forward in Your Magic
The seasons and cycles of darkness and light are the miracles of life. The spiraling cauldron of transmutation ignites a spark that propels us to discover what we’re made of.
The Seductive Illusion of External Validation
The constant need for external love and validation creates a seductive and obsessive illusion. Love and acceptance are not somewhere outside of ourselves, or something we need to search for or earn. The strength of its foundation is within us, all around us, and in the natural world. The strength and resolve of our commitment to love begins with the love we have for ourselves and radiates into everything around us, magnetizing the same energy back to us. Rage shows us where there are cracks in our foundation of self-worth, the spaces that can only be filled by offering ourselves the love, the time, the acceptance, and the care that we are longing for.
To Fear the Dark is to Fear the Sacred Feminine
To live only in “love and light” is the essence of illusion, a betrayal of the necessity of divine darkness, and also the global rejection of the sacred feminine.
A Bit About Stefanie
So much of what I have learned has come from my soul deep connection with Nature, Earth wisdom, the intricate cycles and seasons of our lives, and the beauty that is to be found in both the darkness and light in all of those. It’s why I do the work I do!
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